“Through many years of counseling marriages it is obvious to us that couples are oft ill-prepared for the challenges of living daily as ‘one.’ Starry-eyed infatuation can quickly turn to wild-eyed frustration when two people discover how differently they think and respond to one another's expectations…. This book, centered on scripture, is practical, thorough and thought provoking. Not only would we recommend this to all couples planning to marry, but the topics and homework will strengthen existing marriages young and old.” —Wyndham and Jeanie Shaw, ministry leaders, Boston Church of Christ
My husband and I have been using it with a young couple planning to marry in a few weeks, and have found it to be very helpful. Randall covers a number of very important topics in a brief but thorough manner, and we have found the questions very helpful in spurring further discussion on a number of subjects. I would highly recommend this resource to any engaged couple and to those older Christians who are trying to provide good counsel to prepare them for marriage.
—Dr. Mary Shapiro, psychologist
Preparation for your marriage is vitally important. Ability to develop needed skills is essential for ongoing success. This book is set up to facilitate understanding and communication between you and your spouse-to-be. It will help you to deal with the challenges that marriage brings to all couples:
· Resolving conflict
· Forgiving each other
· Making mutually satisfying decisions
· Blending your finances
· Understanding each other’s needs
· Being aware of background influences
· Learning to have a satisfying sexual relationship
· Approaching all with a humble and giving spirit
Meeting these challenges effectively requires learning, training and getting help from others. This workbook includes exercises and “homework” that will help you consider and discuss many areas in your relationship, giving you a strong foundation for building an enduring marriage. Working through it with your spouse-to-be and with a mentoring couple you trust will help you to
· Gain an understanding of possible challenges
· See the areas that will be the most difficult for you
· Create a comfortable setting for you to grow your communication skills
· Learn strategies for coming to oneness in numerous areas
Even though this pre-wedding time is busy, make the wise decision to invest in this learning process now so you can build a solid foundation for your marriage. God designed it to bring you a lifetime of joy and satisfaction.
